🎈🥳 28 and feeling great. Thank you all for t 🎈🥳 28 and feeling great. Thank you all for the birthday love. I’m one very happy and GRATEFUL Pisces baby.
Since tomorrow is my birthday, I thought I’d tak Since tomorrow is my birthday, I thought I’d take a shot at baking my own cake 🍰 Not sure how it will go, but follow along on my stories :) Also, not so sure how I feel about turning 28 tomorrow... 🤨💖✨🦋 Any tips for my last couple years in my 20’s? 🥲
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
*pictures taken from Pinterest. If you know creator of photo & cakes, feel free to tag :) #birthdaycakeideas
Happy Monday 🦋 Any big plans this week? ☺️☺️☺️
Sunday mood ✨ Do you have any Sunday rituals? Sunday mood ✨ Do you have any Sunday rituals? 

Mine include:
♡ Face Mask 
♡ Journaling & writing out my week
♡ Laundry 🧺 Tidying up the house 

#sundaybest #sundaymood☀️
#sundayquotes #sundaysunday #sundaystyle #sundaytimes #sundayvibe #sundaypost #sundayscaries #sundaychill #babysbreath
#minimalaesthetic #aestheticfeeds #israeliblogger
The Soulmate Wishlist. Have you heard of it? ✨A The Soulmate Wishlist. Have you heard of it?

✨After reading a post by Oprah about The Magic of the Soul Mate Wish List, I was inspired to create my own. I wrote mine on my blog nearly four years ago. You can google The Olive Brunette Soulmate Wish List for an example.

✨Why am I telling you this? You see... there’s something really powerful with writing down what you want.

“Stop looking for the love of your life, love your life and the right person will appear.”

✨This blog post inspired me to dive deep into finding love and the best ways to go about doing so. If you’re on your journey to finding love, make a Soulmate Wish list. Trust that what you ask for will be given to you. 

There’s a book I recommend to all of my friends and family called Ask and It Is Given by Esther Hicks. I’ve read this book 3 times and re-read it whenever I feel out of alignment. If you’re reading this and feel called to check it out, do it. :) There’s magic in this book that you don’t want to miss. 💖

#askanditisgiven @estherabrahamhicks #abrahamhicks @affirmationmagic @oprah #manifestingdreams @thesecretofuniverse #vibratehigher #lawofattractioncoach @thesecret365day #spiritualbeings #thehigherself #spiritualconnection #higherawakening #lawofattractionquotes #askanditisgiven #manifestgreatness
YOU GUYS!!! I found the best website that won’t YOU GUYS!!! I found the best website that won’t leave you with crazy amounts of baked goods lying around the house for the week. Portion control!! 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I really love to bake, but I hate that I have a million cupcakes staring at me when I enter the kitchen. Really just looking for one (ok, ok two...gosh twist my arm) cupcakes 🧁 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This website, Dessert For Two, gives you a perfect recipe for two people. Ahh how perfect is that. 💖 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I made these wedding cake cupcakes and my oh my sweet cherry pie were they good. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Do you have any recipe websites you love?
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
@dessertfortwo #dessertfortwo #dessertfortwoplease #smallcakes #sugarhigh #6inchcake #cakesofinstagram #foodphotography #cakefortwo #cupcakeinstagram #foodstylist #feedfeed #cookingfortwo #bakeorbreak #bakersofinstagram #SWEEEEETS #getinmybelly #noleftovers #bakedfromscratch #instabake #mycommontable #buzzfeedfood #f52grams #thebakefeed #onthetable #foodfreedom #foodtography
Have you ever wondered what your sleeping position Have you ever wondered what your sleeping position says about you? Most importantly, have you ever felt subconscious about how you sleep next to your significant other? This post is for you ⇣
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Side Sleeper (specifically with your arms at your sides): This position says you’re probably easy going, social, and trusting according to sleep doctors. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Side Sleeper (with arms out) : They call this the “yearning log” because you’re yearning for for someone. These sleepers take their time to make up their mind, but once they do they are certain with their decision. The yearning log sleepers are typically open and inviting. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Stomach Sleeper: If you sleep with your head to one side and arms grasping your pillow, experts say you are very social but do not like being criticized- honestly, who does?! Stomach sleepers often have an adventurous spirit and love to have fun. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Back Sleeper (with arms at your side) : If this is you, congratulations. You’re less likely to get wrinkles and your back and neck are in proper alignment. I’m envious... just saying.  Back sleepers are strong and focused - like a soldier. You probably like structure and put high expectations on yourself. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Back Sleeper (with hands up): Calling you a shooting star. How cool. This is the least popular sleeping position so go you for being unique. According to psychology experts, you are a loving and supportive friend. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you’ve recently started to share a bed with someone, you might find that half your brain is standing guard all night long. First, remember that your partner is not judging you for how you sleep. Your brain 🧠 is just a little slow at getting that message... don’t be so hard on yourself. Take time to wind down, focus on your breathing, and step away for a little meditation. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Save this post for the next time you wake up wondering why you woke up like a starfish!
Let’s talk about Ted Talks. Yes, those once very Let’s talk about Ted Talks. Yes, those once very boring YouTube videos your teacher made you watch in school. These influential videos from expert speakers are free 99 and if you’re not watching them, what are you doing?  Here are 3 insanely good Ted Talks about relationships, marriage, & love that you must watch. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
♡ The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
♡ The Person You Really Need To Marry by Tracy McMillan
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
♡ A Better Way To Talk About Love by Mandy Len Catron 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I just published a blog post on The Olive Brunette about 11 Habits That Create Happy Relationships + I went more in depth about these specific Ted Talks with links for you  Visit TheOliveBrunette.com ♡
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
#loveandrelationships #theolivebrunette #blogger #relationshipgoals #sexualwellness #couples #connection #relationshipsbelike #relationshipsintensive #quotestoliveby #thespiritualmagic #relationshipcoach #timetogrowup #growthhacking #relqtionshipsquote #relationships💕💕😘😘🥰🥰 #relationshipsthesedays #relationshipsmattermost #relationshipswork #tedtalks #ideasworthspreading #vulnerability #lifecoach #inspiringwords #believeinyourself #vulnerabilityissexy
Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you 💕✨ Whet Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you 💕✨ Whether you’re celebrating alone or with a loved one, put on a cute outfit, throw on some lipstick, and buy yourself some chocolate! Today is the perfect excuse to enjoy some yummy treats, call your friends & family, take a nice long walk, and watch a great movie 💘
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Lifestyle · January 25, 2021

5 Brutally Honest Pieces Of Advice About Blogging No One Will Tell You

5 Brutally Honest Pieces Of Advice About Blogging No One Will Tell You

Let’s start by saying blogging can be a lot of fun! Having a blog gives you the freedom to write what you want, whenever you want, wherever you want.

This blog post is not meant to scare you out of starting a blog. Rather, I’m here to share with you 5 things I wish I knew before starting my blog years ago.

If you find yourself making these mistakes, don’t fret. We’ve all been there. Blogging takes time, patience, consistency, and practice. 

As a general overview for this post:

  1. The definition of a blog
  2. My five pieces of advice (or, things I wish I knew before starting)
  3. Bonus Guide – How to start a blog

What is a blog?

By definition, a blog is a shortened version of “weblog.” You can guess by the name that it is an online journal or informational website. Blogs come in all different shapes and sizes that display information on different topics from the writer’s point of view. 

Your topics, your writing. 

Some blogs feature one writer, while others host a group of writers.

You can make your blog as big or little as you want. Meaning, YOU determine how many eyeballs you would like on your blog.

When I started blogging I had no idea how to get people to my blog. I would share it with my family and almost beg my friends to read and leave a comment.

All in all, there were so many mistakes made along the way that I don’t want you to make.

5 Brutally Honest Pieces Of Advice About Blogging No One Will Tell You

1.The blog is not about you, it’s about them. When you first start your blog, it’s easy to talk about your personal interests. However, if you plan to monetize your blog and get it in front of a lot of eyeballs, find a solution to someone’s problem. Your blog is all about your audience. If you keep your readers’ interest at heart and focus on providing amazing value, your blog will be a huge hit.

2.Not choosing a specific audience, focus, and direction will hurt your blog. It can be so exciting when you first start your blog because there are so many topics to blog about. However, being clear about what you write about, who you’re writing for, and the direction you wish to take your blog in will bring you all the success with your blog.

3.Focus on writing a really great piece of content instead of consistently posting average content. It’s better to publish really great content in the beginning that you can start promoting as opposed to pumping out lots of articles that are just…meh. No one wants to read that. In the beginning, it will take time to find your voice, who your audience is, and what you want to write. After some time, you will start to get the hang of it, and blogging will come naturally. In the long run, 1 great post will do much better for your blog than a few average posts.

“The blog is not about you, it’s about them.”

4.Start using your own, unique voice. There are plenty of generic websites out there that spew facts and give quick content. It’s overdone and feels impersonal. People connect with blogs because they know that there is a real person behind the screen. It feels friendly and familiar. Start using your real voice and let your personality shine.

5.Stop putting your most important information at the bottom of your blog post. The first thing I learned in school (I got my BA in Journalism and Media Studies) is the inverted pyramid structure. My teachers drilled this into our brains and I never forgot it. If you notice in news stories, information is presented in descending order of importance. In your blog posts, try to get to the most important information first, and then slowly make your way down arranging other details.

honest blogging advice

How to start a blog

First things first, pick a blogging platform. If you would like to eventually monetize your blog, a self-hosted website is the best way to go. I use WordPress and absolutely love it.

If you’re still unsure about blogging and would like to keep this as a hobby then most blogging platforms offer free blogs. If you go with a free blog, expect your URL to look something like yourblog.wordpress.com. It’s very limited and you will be left with a platform to simply write and add a few pictures. 

Next, pick a domain name. Sit with it for a day or two until you are ready to commit. My site name, The Olive Brunette, popped in my head when I was on my Birthright trip to Israel. It gave me goosebumps and I couldn’t stop thinking about my website. I took it as a sign and created my blog the week I got home.

Now, it’s time to design your blog. Have fun with this one and let your personality shine. It doesn’t need to be perfect in the beginning, but make it exciting enough for you to look at it every day. 

As you design, start thinking about your niche. Choosing a blogging niche is so important for the success of your blog. This will be the topic you choose to write and post about. Remember, if you read my tips above, stay focused on your audience and what direction you want your blog to move in.

That is to say, if you’re having a hard time discovering your blogging niche, think about things you like and how you can help others find a solution to their problem.

Grab your pen and paper and start writing down thoughts and ideas. 

In conclusion, remember, you do not need to be perfect in the beginning. It takes time to find your groove in the blogging world. I’ve never met a blogger that had it all figured out in the beginning. For us bloggers, it’s a lot of trial and error. Welcome to the club. 

If you found this post helpful, check out Jessica Knapps, BloggingBasics101 for more blogging tips. She provides very helpful guides for blogging and social media. 

Hope you found these tips helpful. 

I would love to connect with you. Send me a message or follow me on social media @sivangavish. 

For more blogging examples, check out this post I made on Italian food in vegas. 

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🎈🥳 28 and feeling great. Thank you all for t 🎈🥳 28 and feeling great. Thank you all for the birthday love. I’m one very happy and GRATEFUL Pisces baby.
Since tomorrow is my birthday, I thought I’d tak Since tomorrow is my birthday, I thought I’d take a shot at baking my own cake 🍰 Not sure how it will go, but follow along on my stories 🙂 Also, not so sure how I feel about turning 28 tomorrow... 🤨💖✨🦋 Any tips for my last couple years in my 20’s? 🥲
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
*pictures taken from Pinterest. If you know creator of photo & cakes, feel free to tag 🙂 #birthdaycakeideas
Happy Monday 🦋 Any big plans this week? ☺️☺️☺️
Sunday mood ✨ Do you have any Sunday rituals? Sunday mood ✨ Do you have any Sunday rituals? 

Mine include:
♡ Face Mask 
♡ Journaling & writing out my week
♡ Laundry 🧺 Tidying up the house 

#sundaybest #sundaymood☀️
#sundayquotes #sundaysunday #sundaystyle #sundaytimes #sundayvibe #sundaypost #sundayscaries #sundaychill #babysbreath
#minimalaesthetic #aestheticfeeds #israeliblogger
The Soulmate Wishlist. Have you heard of it? ✨A The Soulmate Wishlist. Have you heard of it?

✨After reading a post by Oprah about The Magic of the Soul Mate Wish List, I was inspired to create my own. I wrote mine on my blog nearly four years ago. You can google The Olive Brunette Soulmate Wish List for an example.

✨Why am I telling you this? You see... there’s something really powerful with writing down what you want.

“Stop looking for the love of your life, love your life and the right person will appear.”

✨This blog post inspired me to dive deep into finding love and the best ways to go about doing so. If you’re on your journey to finding love, make a Soulmate Wish list. Trust that what you ask for will be given to you. 

There’s a book I recommend to all of my friends and family called Ask and It Is Given by Esther Hicks. I’ve read this book 3 times and re-read it whenever I feel out of alignment. If you’re reading this and feel called to check it out, do it. 🙂 There’s magic in this book that you don’t want to miss. 💖

#askanditisgiven @estherabrahamhicks #abrahamhicks @affirmationmagic @oprah #manifestingdreams @thesecretofuniverse #vibratehigher #lawofattractioncoach @thesecret365day #spiritualbeings #thehigherself #spiritualconnection #higherawakening #lawofattractionquotes #askanditisgiven #manifestgreatness
YOU GUYS!!! I found the best website that won’t YOU GUYS!!! I found the best website that won’t leave you with crazy amounts of baked goods lying around the house for the week. Portion control!! 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I really love to bake, but I hate that I have a million cupcakes staring at me when I enter the kitchen. Really just looking for one (ok, ok two...gosh twist my arm) cupcakes 🧁 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This website, Dessert For Two, gives you a perfect recipe for two people. Ahh how perfect is that. 💖 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I made these wedding cake cupcakes and my oh my sweet cherry pie were they good. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Do you have any recipe websites you love?
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
@dessertfortwo #dessertfortwo #dessertfortwoplease #smallcakes #sugarhigh #6inchcake #cakesofinstagram #foodphotography #cakefortwo #cupcakeinstagram #foodstylist #feedfeed #cookingfortwo #bakeorbreak #bakersofinstagram #SWEEEEETS #getinmybelly #noleftovers #bakedfromscratch #instabake #mycommontable #buzzfeedfood #f52grams #thebakefeed #onthetable #foodfreedom #foodtography
Have you ever wondered what your sleeping position Have you ever wondered what your sleeping position says about you? Most importantly, have you ever felt subconscious about how you sleep next to your significant other? This post is for you ⇣
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Side Sleeper (specifically with your arms at your sides): This position says you’re probably easy going, social, and trusting according to sleep doctors. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Side Sleeper (with arms out) : They call this the “yearning log” because you’re yearning for for someone. These sleepers take their time to make up their mind, but once they do they are certain with their decision. The yearning log sleepers are typically open and inviting. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Stomach Sleeper: If you sleep with your head to one side and arms grasping your pillow, experts say you are very social but do not like being criticized- honestly, who does?! Stomach sleepers often have an adventurous spirit and love to have fun. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Back Sleeper (with arms at your side) : If this is you, congratulations. You’re less likely to get wrinkles and your back and neck are in proper alignment. I’m envious... just saying.  Back sleepers are strong and focused - like a soldier. You probably like structure and put high expectations on yourself. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
» Back Sleeper (with hands up): Calling you a shooting star. How cool. This is the least popular sleeping position so go you for being unique. According to psychology experts, you are a loving and supportive friend. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you’ve recently started to share a bed with someone, you might find that half your brain is standing guard all night long. First, remember that your partner is not judging you for how you sleep. Your brain 🧠 is just a little slow at getting that message... don’t be so hard on yourself. Take time to wind down, focus on your breathing, and step away for a little meditation. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
✨ Save this post for the next time you wake up wondering why you woke up like a starfish!
Let’s talk about Ted Talks. Yes, those once very Let’s talk about Ted Talks. Yes, those once very boring YouTube videos your teacher made you watch in school. These influential videos from expert speakers are free 99 and if you’re not watching them, what are you doing?  Here are 3 insanely good Ted Talks about relationships, marriage, & love that you must watch. 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
♡ The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
♡ The Person You Really Need To Marry by Tracy McMillan
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
♡ A Better Way To Talk About Love by Mandy Len Catron 
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I just published a blog post on The Olive Brunette about 11 Habits That Create Happy Relationships + I went more in depth about these specific Ted Talks with links for you  Visit TheOliveBrunette.com ♡
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
#loveandrelationships #theolivebrunette #blogger #relationshipgoals #sexualwellness #couples #connection #relationshipsbelike #relationshipsintensive #quotestoliveby #thespiritualmagic #relationshipcoach #timetogrowup #growthhacking #relqtionshipsquote #relationships💕💕😘😘🥰🥰 #relationshipsthesedays #relationshipsmattermost #relationshipswork #tedtalks #ideasworthspreading #vulnerability #lifecoach #inspiringwords #believeinyourself #vulnerabilityissexy
Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you 💕✨ Whet Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you 💕✨ Whether you’re celebrating alone or with a loved one, put on a cute outfit, throw on some lipstick, and buy yourself some chocolate! Today is the perfect excuse to enjoy some yummy treats, call your friends & family, take a nice long walk, and watch a great movie 💘
A few of my favorites in one picture 💕✨ A few of my favorites in one picture 💕✨

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