Repetitive, awkward, and unpredictable.
Just a few words to describe dating and how to find a real love. I know you’ve already got a whole list of words to describe the situation.
Trust me when I say, I completely understand.
How to Manifest Love in 10 Minutes
I was standing in your shoes not too long ago and crying to my mom daily asking her why no one wants me.
I was sick and tired of going on dates and absolutely dreaded getting ready for a cocktail hour that I knew would send me home frustrated and sad.
It’s lonely and sometimes scary because you think time is closing in. You keep asking yourself, “will I ever find someone?”
When you finally do go on a date there is a little spark of hope that leaves you thinking, “is he the one?”
You join your girlfriends for Sunday brunch and talk about how there are no fish in the sea, and share that you’re in the wrong city or country.
Your dinner parties make a quick turn from one glass of wine to a full bottle and your romantic comedy night with your girlfriends turns into a real-life comedy – simultaneously laughing and crying the night away.
I know because I’ve been there.
I am giving you a virtual hug, but also giving you a gentle nudge because your negative talk about love stops now.
What if I told you how you can manifest love in under 10 minutes?
After months of research, Youtube videos, books, podcasts, and articles I finally cracked the code to find the perfect love and I want to help you find love, too.
I have a fiancé and a new country of residence to prove it.
Trust me, you can do it and I’ll show you exactly how.
In fact, I will share with you my exact formula on how to manifest love in under 10 minutes a day.
The breakdown of what we’ll cover in this post:
- What does it mean to manifest love?
- Why are you still single?
- A proven formula on how to manifest love in under 10 minutes
- Journal entry examples
- Continuing a routine that sticks
- Does true love exist?
- Relationship love quotes to make you smile
Before we begin
Close your eyes and take a deep breath. You are in the right place and you are not reading this by accident.
Follow these suggestions and I promise your perspective on finding love will completely change.
Your journey to manifesting love starts now… (how bachelorette-ey did that sound, eh?)
What does it mean to manifest love?
According to The Law of Attraction, to manifest means “something that is put into your physical reality through thought, feelings, and beliefs.”
If you put enough thought into something you’ve been thinking about and give it as much feeling and focus, then you will manifest those thoughts into your reality.
For example, if you wake up in the morning and stub your toe, your focus is mostly on the pain and anger you have towards stubbing your toe first thing in the morning.
Your energy is now creating your reality.
The stubbing of the toe then turns into spilling coffee on your white shirt, receiving an angry letter from your boss, leaving your lunch at home by mistake, etc.
Your day has now negatively spiraled because of your bad feeling thoughts from stubbing your toe.
Lao Tzu, from Mind Body Green, once said: “Watch your thoughts, they become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”
This is exactly what it means to manifest.
We are always attracting thoughts, people, and things whether it be positive or negative via our thoughts and energy.
Since we’re already manifesting, whether we are conscious of it or not, wouldn’t it be beneficial to change your thoughts on how to find real love?
Now, the Law of Attraction and Manifestation does not simply happen by thinking and feeling.
Although, wouldn’t it be nice to just sit, think, and feel about Prince Charming when it comes to finding real love?
We must put in the work alongside the thinking and feeling.
But, you know what? Changing your thoughts and feelings will make the work you put in so much more enjoyable.
This next section breaks down exactly why you’re still living a single life.
Why are you still single?
Now that you know what Manifestation means, you probably have a better idea of why you’re still single.
When it comes to finding real love you’re probably using negative verbiage, feeling alone, and surrounding yourself with other miserable single people.
I know from experience.
My circle consisted of other singles who spoke similarly to me and dreaded dating just like me.
You and your friends are watching romance movies or reading romance novels and feeling jealous of the main character.
You’re looking at couples on a date and rolling your eyes.
Often times you find yourself saying, “always the bridesmaid and never the bride.”
It’s time to change that.
These thoughts and words you’re saying further provoke you to be single.
A proven formula to manifest love in under 10 minutes
To manifest love, you will need to set aside ten minutes of your time to get started.
Get your pen and journal ready.
Now, I know you’re thinking this is too good to be true, but I have a loving fiance and new country of residence to show for this due to my method.
Every morning (or night) I set aside 10 minutes.
I open my journal and write down three things I am grateful for, followed by three goals I’d like to achieve.
Sometimes I write more, but in the beginning, I made sure to focus my thoughts.
As you write the things you are grateful for, begin to practice feeling good. Play music, do some jumping jacks, dance around your room, go for a walk, drink some tea…etc.
Create a routine that will put you in a good mood to journal.
Now that you’re feeling good and your thoughts are clear, you can begin writing your gratitude list.
Writing a list of things you are grateful for will further stimulate these good feeling thoughts.
Remember what Lao Tzu says, “Watch your thoughts, they become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”
From there, begin writing your goals.
Journal Entry Examples
- “My goal is to be in a loving, committed relationship with the man of my dreams.”
- “My goal is to go on more fun dates.”
- “My goal is to have fun towards finding love.”
You create your goals, these are just a few examples of things I’ve written that have worked for me.
The key here is to keep it simple, focused, and feeling good. No need to get into specifics with a date or time. The universe does not understand time.
As you are writing, maintain that good feeling energy from the beginning of your practice.
Check-in with your thoughts and feelings.
Now take a few more deep breaths.
Let’s begin to affirm your goals, because again, your thoughts become your words, and your words become your actions.
- “I am so happy and grateful now that I am in a loving, committed relationship with the man of my dreams.”
- “I am so happy and grateful for my fun dates. I love meeting great guys every week.”
- “I am so happy and grateful for my fun loving energy towards finding love.”
Continuing a routine that sticks to finding real love
Like I mentioned in the beginning, you must put in the work alongside the thinking and feeling.
You must begin to co-create.
Co-creating is implementing the steps from the thoughts you’ve written down. Since you are looking at how to find a real love it’s time to start putting yourself back into dating.
With your new good feelings, thoughts, and written goals, it’s time to download those online dating sites, join a cocktail hour, show up at networking events, and put yourself in the places of the things you love to do.
If you’re obsessed with the gym, continue showing up feeling good. You will be surprised to find a nice man who will bring you a water bottle or towel. Maybe you’ll bump into him coming out of the locker room…
The universe is magical.
If you love to paint, grab a few friends and show up to painting nights. Your prince charming and future date might just be there with his friends on the same night.
The same goes for cooking lovers. If you’re on a mission to find real love, start signing up for a group cooking class. Your teacher might be single and ready to mingle.
You see, it’s about changing your perspective and the way you feel.
You are the creator of your story. If you want to find real love, there are great guys out there waiting to find you.
All it takes is a shift in perspective with clear intentions, good feeling thoughts, and action towards your goal.
This method can be applied to anything in life.
Does true love exist?
Expert Kim Saeed says, “Women need to show up as high value, not only for others but for themselves, too.”
These 10 minutes a day will allow you to reset your mind to begin valuing the love you deserve.
Firstly, the shift in your body and mind during this practice will allow you to begin subconsciously thinking about how to find the true love you deserve.
Secondly, allow your mind to wander during movies and novels and put yourself in the shoes of the characters.
Consume movies and shows that have happy endings and romance story plots.
Moreover, “during those few hours of watching a movie or reading a novel, that’s what we get to experience because the subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between reality and something we imagine. We truly become part of the story” according to Saeed.
However, if movies and shows are not your cups of tea, then try reading some relationship love quotes every morning or night.
Relationship Love quotes to make you smile
(you can find so many more great relationship love quotes on BestLifeOnline.com)
“True love is not a hide-and-seek game; in true love, both lovers seek each other.” —Michael Bassey Johnson
“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.” —Maya Angelou
“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” —Moulin Rouge
“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life. That word is love.” —Sophocles
In conclusion, even if you’re feeling a little skeptical, that’s ok. Give this a try.
If you’re unhappy with where you are anyways, why not change it?
By implementing this practice daily, you can be in a happy relationship with real love in just a few short months.
My story is proof that this works.
If you’d like to read about my journey to finding love, I invite you to read this article.
All it takes is a choice.
What choice will you make? Let me know in the comments below.
Your journey to finding real love starts now.
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